Should we teach our son with Asperger syndrome to behave more normal? - asperger more condition_symptoms
I have a son with Asperger's Syndrome, and now, after the movie Mozart and the Whale, "his mother said, uniquely, the clock every time he noticed some strange behavior. I think she has good intentions and want to It is well adapted to the society around him, but do so nervous mistakes. Has anyone an idea how not to make him a target of bullying at school, but not the nerve to make at home?
Saturday, February 6, 2010
Asperger More Condition_symptoms Should We Teach Our Son With Asperger Syndrome To Behave More Normal?
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Of course, students in the spectrum can be uncomfortable if you tell them or explain their behavior is inappropriate or not socially acceptable for the situation. I believe that with my students is a difficult line to walk, because you do not want to harm the student / child 's emotional state of mind, but I see it ... if the behavior is not corrected, and the students continue to act in socially acceptable influence the child later in life worse. Social Stories are an excellent way to expose students in the teaching of appropriate behavior within or outside the school. Explain to your child why the behavior is not appropriate and how appropriate behavior can also help. You try to think positively. Instead of saying "evil", they say, "Go". Sounds Willy, semantics, but can develop children's self-esteem and to avoid embarrassment. Your on the right track, as a specialist intervention for their children to school (Spec. ed. Maestro) and / or a speech therapist for ideas.
The set is not well in therapy, ABA.
Behavior is quite normal, is almost impossible. I am also autistic, I know.
If you massive problems or who are against people, well help to solve problems or avioding this behavior.
Bullying at school has a big problem for me. Maybe you should talk to a teacher, and it is sometimes useful to change the class or school.
My son gets occupational therapy, speech therapy and behavior outside of school. If he makes mistakes, we'll tell you what to do instead. (such as a tantrum, quietly suggesting that he try a breathing exercise to calm, etc.) was not nervous at home.
As for the not the target of bullying - I do not know how. Who May is a joke - but that does not mean that your child is going to be. You can try to work closely with schools to ensure that they strictly enforce the "no bullying" policy.
Hopefully this will be a popular classmate, the more you invite. If you have a few friends that will make life easier for him. If you are in preschool, kindergarten or 1st Class, you probably will not get teased at the moment. So far my son has no friends, but apparently her classmates like him.
I suggest trying a kind of rapprochement with special ... (his son is really lucky, she was diagnosed in the first year!) if your school offers courses in special education. If not demand that a program after school, where you can get help.
Instead of scolding when they are caught, something inappropriate, tell him the correct behavior first. (eg if the rocks back and forth in class, ask them to bring a toy or a ball or something in my pocket that can creep in secret during class to keep their concerns to a minimum.)
Continue to tell him why he do these things, and go with the social history. Ask interact with him, as many people as possible, even if only a "hello" and "Goodbye". You can use these in the school practice. If you learn the names of his classmates, he can say Hello, they at the beginning and end of the day. Even this little thing gives you confidence, and who see his classmates, wants friends with them.
When he comes, ask for hometheir days and talk about it, what he has learned what he ate for dinner, something like that.
More important, communication with his teacher. Tell him about your child, what is Asperger's, as he / she can help. Create an IEP (Individual Education Plan) so you can track your progress from year to year.
My brother is autistic. It is wonderful and beautiful, but some of her behavior is bizarre. We remember that sometimes a behavior (like singing) is a private behavior in public (almost 13). Do not look too complicated and you feel strange. Remember, our rules. It falls into the same category (with the exception of his bathrobe, as he does not stick out of the shower, your hand on your pants, do not chew and not) pins. These are the rules he knows. We are all in the same category. However, as my father, he is autistic. There will always be autistic. We must prepare for the world, but also prepare the world for him. We are talking about with our children in the neighborhood around them and try to integrate them into their world. You know he has autism. He knows he has autism. At home, you, my brother do almost anything you want. You can see parts of films back. One can draw an orange sky and a green man. He can walk without a shirt (just arrived at the point where he keeps his pants, that is really a step forward, believe me). You can play on your computerWatch videos from You Tube to the satisfaction of his heart. Only if he breaks a fundamental rule of the House can not even say what it (and he has something really dangerous, of course).
Looking at him, her or it dirty, I could make you feel worse and maybe even a part of our family. My brother is nervous in public, but rarely at home. The house is your sanctuary and your room even further.
Speaking, you can write stories about their social and perhaps with him and find a code-word. One of my brothers classmate's mother said: "galoshes" (I think that is what it is) and knows how to stop picking his nose, for example.
What do I do, we need to understand trust in themselves, but about who has Asperger's syndrome.
In addition, bullying can unfortunately not so easy to stop. I recommend talking to the class () in a regular class. Children are by what they do not understand being afraid. Fearful children are bullies. Children who understand that someone needs a little help and understanding often come through (in fact, not like some of the children, but the natureI'm afraid) for the children.
My parents can probably help if you give more to write about me, I can e-mail address and you may want to ask questions directly. My brother is very serious and is still fairly well accepted in our neighborhood and at school. It has the lowest self-esteem that some children his age, but not least, they want to dance in the mirror and talk to him in the mirror.
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